I really like a lot of the bbloggers posts and I would love to join in.. Very tempted to create a blog for fun stuff and then keep this one as private. Not that I'm bothered about people reading it, I'm just not sure if I want my personal friends to read this as many of them don't know what I've been through. (Update on that later.) I'm not ashamed of what I've done but it's not necessarily something I want people to see for the first thing, if that makes sense.

I'm not sure. I think it's something that needs to be more upfront rather than tabboo. It's a horrible choice to have gone through, so no-one should ever be made to feel guilty for making that choice.